Are you really married or....just roomates?

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Ive asked him about counseling, but he refuses. Sad thing is, he has been married previously before. Im the 3rd wife.. Said counseling doesnt work for him.

If he won't go to counseling then you may have hit a dead end. Hopefully you two can talk about it and reconnect.

For myself, my stbxh and I became roomates after five years. I asked him a couple of times to go to counseling and he refused. As a result, we are in the process of divorce. We have not lived together for a few years (tried R but it didn't work) and before that had not had sex in three years. No, I'm not kidding.

I know that I am a much happier and fulfilled person now. I hope that same feeling comes to him someday.

good luck to you though! Keep working on it and keep pushing him for either counseling or good communication. Please don't let it get to where my relationship went.

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